2nd Thread - After almost 1 year, I keep going

[BklynMom]

I liked your letter as well. My DB coach says you need to get in front of the train to slow it down.

Let me rant a minute: This idea, that my H has as well, that when your M you can announce one day that its over and take off your ring and from that point on you are a free man is so cockamayme. Helllooooo. We are married! not going steady; not living together.

These days I have new found respect for the Tony Soprano type of H, who is constantly cheating but really always with his wife. At least Tony Soprano had the balls to admit want the heck he was doing.

This need from my H and yours to be told that they are a "good guy" while they leave their W & kids is ridiculous.

DB makes us own our mistakes, which we made but they need to own theirs and that is gonna take a while. (See "Its complicated")

Also, hello, when you wife, girlfriend or one night stand gets knocked up you need to show up. I know a married couple with 3 kids now that got married cause she was pregnant, they hadnt been dating long but they decided they would try marriage when she accidently got pregnant with #1 .

When kids are involved & the woman is preggers you need act like a grown up not at 16 yr old boy & be led around by your friend downstairs. Come on. We all know this, his mother & sisters know this. Everyone knows this.

That being said, you are right and he is wrong now we need to move on and be happy