I am glad that you have some "reserve" GAL activities lined up. That way, when you are down or dejected (like earlier today), you have something to take your mind away from it rather quickly.
The good news is that you didn't need them today. So enjoy this "bonus" time with D!
As for your W, who knows... (and hopefully you can get to a point of serious detachment where you can also say: and who cares?)
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D