I responded to her e-mail after I saw 25's comments, so unfortunately may have pursued a little bit in my response, but at least I came clean about how I am feeling.
I mentioned in a previous post that I sent her a note in November basically saying, "I don't think it makes sense for us to ever talk to each other or see each other again, let's just let the lawyers talk". I realize that this was a huge mistake and it showed my anger, but she is actually keeping to this.
Her attorney communicates with my attorney and we don't really talk about anything. I am pretty sure she is going to file soon.
I am in a tough spot as I don't have any reason to see her (now that the safe deposit has been split up, there is really no reason to interact).
I understand that I need to let things go and detach, but it is so hard as my attorney just contacts me with new information that my W initiated when all I want to do is sit down and talk to her directly.
Any ideas for how I can see her without pursuing? I can't really take back my comment that I never want to see her again. I think coming up with excuses to meet up is pursuing, but she does want to go ahead and move this forward (and with such a simple case, this will be a very quick process).
