Rick & nh - I'm going through the same thing. My H is still in the house but sleeping on the couch. He has some dad issues that he probably should be talking to someone about, but won't. How DO you shut your emotions off?
I'm definitely having issues detaching, but still being friendly. (One of his issues was that he felt that he didn't get enough attention in our M and didn't matter.)
We've been getting along REALLY well lately, but I always wonder if he's just being nice until he leaves.
