Ugh, I am emotional. Convince me that I should not suggest we all go to the kid museum together tomorrow! They were going to go today, but are going tomorrow instead. At this point there is no way my suggesting we spend time together would be seen as pursuing in a negative way to him. He'd be thrilled. Convince me as to WHY we need space.
I never know when it's going to hit me like this.
I'm not sure you need space if you are in the type of realtionship you want (duh), but what I mean is, if he's going to be wildly in love with you but want to have a few hookups because he never lived that world before, then you can't let that happen. If he's going to "f" around then he can't have you and son. You may not agree but I'd hate to see you sell yourself short.