Again, I keep the road open for her and she knows it, but I'm wondering if I just need to really let her sink or fall on her own. I think what I mean is to detach myself from this without detaching from her practically. I'll keep the house going, the finances going, the kids on track, etc. but maybe it's smart to divest myself emotionally to the outcome?
The balancing is quite difficult but I think you are doing a great job. If you have it in you to detach emotionally as much as possbile and still be there as much as possible in my opionion I think that would be the best thing for you.
