Done lurking, need advice.

[25yearsmlc]

Grumpy

I said nearly the same things to my h 6 years ago. I said "h was always selfish and never put us ahead of his career"
( I thought it was true THEN...)

"I sacrificed my career and youth raising our kids alone and you were AWOL and when you were home you were always irritable, so it'll be better without you"

"there's LESS tension when you are away so don't bother coming back"...

yep Grmpy, I said all those things and at the time, I think I meant them.

Thank God I didn't get a tattoo saying it, and nothing is written in stone.

There is a very good reason we tell you to ignore all of what she says and half of what she DOES...

But you must back off. NO MORE TEXTS...and DETACH...

there are reasons we say that too...