You are absolutely right. I should have first waited 24 hrs. and then used a cool head. I let my emotions and my H's reaction get the best of me and that was bad.
It's frustrating to backslide like this... NOw I have to learn from it.
Rick - my GAL is going great. I don't think there would be any complaints.
Took the girls yesterday to see Beauty and The Beast - their first ever.
Today we are staying put cause I am potty training D3, but we have a bouncy house that should keep us busy and having fun, in addition to puzzles and books that they always love.
I continue with my therapy once a week - for anger management.
Tonight when H & OW take the kids, I am going out for dinner with my best friend. She is having problems with her H (he has anger problems) and needs someone to talk to. I am helping her out with what I am learning in my own journey.
On Monday I am meeting with my friend / real estate agent to discuss the sale of our house - I want to assess the market and what it means financially. I have a feeling we need to get rid of it soon or we will lose everything. H doesn't want to talk finances with me, but I am getting all my info together so I can approach him with some suggestions / ideas.
Meeting with a L the week after to discuss drafting a separation agreement. It's been over a year, H is not doing anything and he is pulling us down financially.
I am pretty busy the rest of the time - girls to pre-school plus the little one at home. I walk them all to school and back take the girls to swim lessons twice a week, visit my parents once a week and the other day is fun day for me and the kids alone. Usually we bake or go to the park or to the beach or something like the movies yesterday.
I am also starting to get my little one to eat solids. He has grown so fast. I cannot believe he is 6 months old.
I am also starting to talk to people about finding a job - part time so I can take care of the kids.
I think that is mostly what my life is about at this point.
Have to go - baby is crying... Will check back later.
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D
