Do you wise ones believe that some MLCer's can't face the issues that were at the core of their MLC? Is that why some possibly seem to stay stuck? That it's just easier to blame the LBS and marriage than to deal with their deep down inner issues? I am assuming that some never probably even make the connection.
I also know that no marriage is perfect, but in reading about the reasons the MLCer gives for leaving the marriage, a lot of them seem so superficial and petty.
