One more thing steady that I forgot to mention earlier and I'm wondering if this was one thing you obsessed with or struggled with .My biggest obsession and the reason I waited so long to move out was the fear of some other guy raising my kids. That truly is the thing that races through my brain the most.
I couldn't tell you how many times I said, "I don't want some other man raising my kids." It's one of the reasons I fought for almost 3 years for half custody of my children. So yeah, it was a big deal for me.
On another note which I didn't mention. Of all the people I've spoken to who got divorced, somewhere around 75% had their spouse come back at some time asking for another chance.
Statistics don't matter so don't focus on them. There's always someone in the 'winning' percent and it's impossible to know if that will be you.
MySitch Me-47 STBXW-41 D-5 S-8 ILYBNILWY-01/08 Want a D- 01/09 Physical Sep-01/10 D filed-06/10 Got 50% custody=09/11 Ride that wave!
