SA, I received a very crazy apology from my xh approximately 5 1/2 years after he left. The apology was for his behavior and what he had put me through the entire marriage. It was not an apology for what he had done during his mlcing days.
They tend to have moments of clarity and if they are further along in their crisis, they will offer up some half hearted attempts of apologies. Some never provide them and others, once they are through the crisis and feel safer in talking with the lbs will apologize or actually begin talking about the destruction.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
