Got divorced yesterday. Actually legally separated, but the truth is divorce. Just letting W keep health insurance. This is what she needed, what she wanted. W attended by phone. Got in an hour long conversation with her L, who was a very understanding person who was amazed at how much my W and I care for each other. WTF.

Never felt lower in my life. Didn't know it was possible to feel this bad. But it is.......


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012