Thanks guys. I have made some profound changes, yet I am a work in progress. I like me now - before the bomb not so much. My R with the W had defined me for the past decade. That barometer was my daily benchmark and it was unhealthy to say the least. Last night and this week will allow me to finish what I have started and leave her behind. I realize this is a hallmark of DB, but I am going to do this without the goal of getting her back now. I guess for the past 8 weeks I have had a goal rather than a solution.

I have been forced to detach now.


Me: 44
Bomb: 11/27/11
Divorced:6/12
Life goes on: 6/13


Dogs still like bacon...a lot.