W tells me that tonight she and D are going to a horse show award and won't be home for dinner. She than tells me that her brother is having surgery sometime next week. They found a malignant tumor in his colon. I told her I was sorry. He is 51 single and no kids. I knew something was wrong as her aunt has called her numerous time lats week. That is unusual

I may need a 2x4 but could not help myself. She tells me about the horse thing 1st and than drops the BIL thing. I was confused and laughed but caught myself. I hope 2012 is not like 2011. Can't have another year like that, no freaking way.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden