MLC,
The problem isn't a physical one requiring medication. You are right that there are performance issues plus fears of failure. This has been a longstanding issue. I think early on it related to both of us being unhappy in the M. The separation created another layer of problems. The sleeping elsewhere created another layer of problems. Piecing has occured for the last two years. We tried sex therapy twice. My W was insulted that we had to see a therapist. I was the problem in her eyes. There's a long history of failure here.

Reinventing the M, and starting over is where we've been for the past two years. It truly is a piecing process.

CL

CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching