Done lurking, need advice.

[2thepoint]

Hey GM,

I haven't really been following your sitch but see you post frequently and saw your desperate post tonight and I feel compelled to provide you with my perspective on things.

First, you have been getting very good advice from KD, 25, J3B, etc. I think you'd agree with that.

So, while your W is creating intense emotional havoc in your life at the moment, why don't you do yourself a favor and really Detach yourself from the emotional roller coaster you are on.

You say you are exhausted and I don't doubt it. But think about where that exhaustion is coming from. You are fighting to save your M. You are dealing with the constant barrage of insults and hurtful comments from your W.

Your hanging on is like clinging to a rock in the middle of a fast moving river near the edge of what you perceive to be a very high waterfall. And you are growing tired and weak and you want to let go.

So let go. Detach. You may find that the waterfall is not as high as you thought and there is calm water after the drop. Go ahead and take the plunge and rest for awhile. Detach. Gather your bearings. Stop all unnecessary contact with your W. Detach. Start living life for you and not your W. Detach. Start really focusing your efforts on GAL. Detach.

I know you can do it. Prove me right!