labug said: While this might be good to hear...if your wife ever finds out about this, you're toast. You'll both be toast. I'd ask her friend not to divulge anymore confidences. Dead serious. ***********************************
I know LA - so does she. And if I did not trust her implicitly, I would say nothing. She knows I will say nothing to w and I know she will say nothing to w. Our interactions a few and far between.....haven't spoken in months - long before I ever joined the board.
The info is nice to have. But weigh the risks. Labug is right, if W ever finds out it will be a MAJOR blow to her trust and your credibility. IMO, you should suggest your W's friend stop sending you further info at least. Good luck.
Me:45, W:45 S:16 D:13 M:22, T:25 Bomb: July 2010 Putting finances in order for "D" Continue to live in same home-separate rooms
Just remember, if you reconcile and some night you're pillow talking don't ever, ever, ever say "Y'know W I was about to give up but then I got a text from Friend and she said yadda, yadda, yadda and gave me hope." or anything even close to that.
Seriously, Dude.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
Trust me. I am not free and easy with that kind of intel at all. I am well aware of the consequences. As far as I am concerned when the sun comes up tomorrow the conversation never happened. I am certain her friend feels the same way, too.
Really wish that had an audio clip to go along with it. That would be an awesome thing to play back and listen to when I get one of those ideas that seems really good at the moment, but....
Me:45, W:45 S:16 D:13 M:22, T:25 Bomb: July 2010 Putting finances in order for "D" Continue to live in same home-separate rooms
