The 180 would be to give her lots of attention. She is pretty adamant right now that she wants space for 6 weeks to work on her 'stuff'. I have talked to her about it and it seems legitimate. She will not commit 100% to being with me, but other actions seem to indicate that she does intend to come back at the end of the period we agreed to.
As for romance, I am just not that kind of guy, and she would think its phoney. I have to be more subtle with that if I am going to make that a 180. I have definitely put in the effort with her and she for me, but I could also see where she thinks that I may have not really wanted her during these previous times.
