Thank you for the welcome! I'm working hard (and having success) on taking care of me. My challenge is not seeing my H everyday. I don't even speak to him some days. When we do speak, I'm the one who calls or he calls for the kids and I happen to answer the phone. Still won't say anything about D and doesn't ask how I'm doing. Those are 2 small goals for me (for now): a phone call TO ME and a "how are you". We have that mediation coming up and I don't know what to expect. Do you suggest an appt to chat with a coach? I'm still working on letting go of the anger I feel about how he's treated me and the kids. I definitely won't let him know I'm ticked, but I constantly try to find positive outlets for the anger. I found organizing and cleaning to help. There are days I feel like the bottom of a shoe, but I pray and find something busy to do. I know I need to be patient, but I've always been the "get it done - now" type. (Roxane)
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