I also said that there was no guarantee that this will work out. Given all we have to lose, don't we owe it to ourselves to give it a shot? If it doesn't work out you're really no worse off, maybe we'll both learn something about ourselves. If it does work out, we save the expense of divorce and the lifestyle hit that we're both guaranteed to take.
Accuray - how did your W react to this? Did she take this advise? thx