2nd Thread - After almost 1 year, I keep going

[BklynMom]

""Good grief, you have a 6 month old!! Of course his family has a problem with that""

You have accepted your role in the decline of your marriage your H has not at all accepted his role. I understand the DB philosophy about we can only be responsible for our actions and our behavior and we need to own our mistakes.

What has been hard for me and seems similar for you is to own our mistakes while recognizing that H made some grievous mistakes as well.

I loved what 25 wrote above. I think you should send it to him and go dark. Try to set up some custody sitch where a 3rd party does the hand off not you.

Your H like mine does not want to own that he is abandoning a family. He is not just leaving you, he is also leaving the kids and that makes him a schmuck. You MIL and SIL know that marriage is not easy. They know that W are b!tchy but why did he slept with you and conceive your S 15 months ago if you were so terrible. He needs to admit to himself that he is partly to blame.

Your MIL & SIL being disappointed in him is how most mothers and sisters would feel. You did nothing wrong by telling them in the way you did. He needs to understand this is not peachy keen.

Sorry your H just got me so mad reminds me of mine.