WAW told me she doesn't want to be married pt3

[MrBond]

IMHO, You sound pretty ungrateful. Your family offered to pay for your car, you should be happy. So what if they didn't do it earlier? It's not like you made a big fuss about it before.

I don't know if you notice it or not, but you're making your W seem like a saint and your family is the enemy. Hate to tell you this, but your W is gone and your family is still there trying to help you. Forget about the past, this is what's going on right now. In fact, if you were really that unhappy in your sitch with your family, you would have done something about it rather than letting your W nag you about it.

Even if it was to get some professional C about how to deal with family issues, you would have done something about it if it really bothered you. Your family seems to be doing these things for you with the best intentions. You are just "perceiving" them to be negative.

"Families answer to everything throw money at it make it go away and all will be better. "

Not true. They are probably doing that because they don't know what else to do. Why don't you actually THANK them and say "I really appreciate it, but I think I have a handle on things." A little humility makes everyone happy. And your mom won't have to stress so much.