Good grief! Well, I'll say this, he is reading from some sort of script. My xh did the same thing. He tried to tell me what 'wonderful woman' ow was, how she was really good to our son, she has been through some rough things in her life and it would really 'help me (meaning me, not him)' to talk to her! WTH? I refused in much the same fashion you did. He ambushed me with her when we were meeting at restaurant to discuss visitation!
Yes, you could have left a few things off your response, but you were honest about how you feel about the situation. Don't beat yourself up about it.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!