that's a great way to give an ultimatum, which is what it is.
DB goes against unltimatums
unless
1) you truly cannot manage another day of not knowing....
AND
2) you are prepared for the UNdesired reaction from her.
So if you corner her-- That means if she chooses to leave you and files from Texas (where the law may favor her more or less) or stays and gets another L there,
then you'll have pushed her into it...and never know what might have been, if you'd DBd some more.
Are you ready for that?
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