feeling like giving up.....former DBing against OW

[25yearsmlc]

God,

I never say this but in your financial sitch, I can't wait for the divorce decree and automatic payments made to you...geez...

oh, and I have not EVER seen a man who threatens to "fight for custody" keep fighting --when the past amount owed is sought by the custodial parent.

That shuts them up FAST...you'd come out ahead getting the arrears too--but don't let me screw up what your L tells you.

Thank God you don't live in a northern climate...

Maybe he's squeezing you to get a job-all the more reason to rush things for YOUR sake.

Then again, that's giving him credit for putting thought into this and I'm not sure he is. Sounds more clueless than cruel, if you kwim.

Hang in there. It gets better-and you already are.

((( )))