Thanks Gabby... No, I won't help her. Partly because I said I wouldn't and to go back on that would make me appear weak (which would be accurate because I would be!). Partly because I don't think I could handle the emotion of actually doing it... not without breaking down. And partly because I'm going to take my S to the Wisconsin Dells to a waterpark... I LOVE waterparks and so does he, so if I had to choose between lugging furniture and going on waterslides... well, no brainer! smile

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And even then she doesn't need to know the exact location and times.
Yep, and this is why I didn't tell her what I was even thinking of doing. It will truly be my first "weekend" where we are living apart. I owe her nothing on those weekends other than to pick S up on time from school and have him to school on-time on Monday morning. If we travel out of state I'll tell her. If we're going out of the country I'll tell her... but otherwise it's my life. She opted out.


Married 6 together 8
Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both
SS12, SD10, S6
Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann)
W moved out: 2/18/12
D final: 11/12/12
Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD