The kids aren't seeing their mom, but really, shouldn't she solve that problem not me?
Yes, she's the adult, they are the children. She determines what her relationship is to be. You are not responsible to get her to and from visitation. She was the walk the away, she had a large part to play in the situation she now finds herself in, let her solve it. Just my opinion. You've made a good boundary here.
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