KD. My focus is on my growth and becoming a better person but I still have a responsibility as a H and F if something like this comes up. I was proud that I didn't cave and just cater to her right out of the starting gate. She finally came to me because she was hurting. She needs major rest and like Harrier said its a no brainer to take kids and not leave with sick parent. I just didn't want to go over there and babysit. I'd rather have taken them off her hands so she could rest and the kids could sleep here. This is the giant catch 22 I am in.
