Light at the end of the tunnel......

[NYCPeter]

My W had stopped hanging out with anyone who would support the M - in fact she kind of stopped before the bomb, I didn't really notice at the time that she was going to fewer events with friends who would support us and encourage us to work through issues.

She now hangs out with work colleagues only who I only have a passing acquaintence with. These work colleagues would have known about my W's A as they were all going out after work and he works there aswell.

She is choosing to hang out with people who support her decision, not those who would ask her the tough questions.

Her family support her - but I know my W has only shared certain info with them, and they certainly don't know about the debt, or the OM. It's not my place to tell them.

It sometimes feels like I am the only person who interacts regularly with her that is pro-marraige, though over recent months I've not tried to persuade her differently.

It's no wonder she's on the course she is on - everyone is telling her what a great idea it is....