I could totally see that happening. Your W and other WAS are not hanging out with friends that dont support them. My H is not hanging out with the guys who I know tell him he is crazy, he is hanging with the people that "understand".

Your W probably reached out to friends that "get it" vs. those that say you should work on your M

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13