I went to my Riding Association meeting tonight. It was 80 minutes of arguing, fighting and shouting...and the meeting never even started! Finally we had to leave because the community centre was closing. Isn't politics fun! As I was arriving home I got a text from SDA Lady, we hadn't communicated all day. She said "How was ur day. I had a long one and am tired" I took that as "I need to talk" so I called and sure enough she did. She started out with "how was your day" "what did you have for dinner" and I cut right to the chase and asked her what was wrong. She went to her Dr's today for a physical and the Dr wants her to go for an electrocardiogram. SDA Lady had heart palpitations a few years ago and Dr. wants to repeat the tests, so she's kind of freaked out about why the doctor wants to repeat the tests, Dr. says "just to make sure everything is OK" So, I tried to convince her not to troll the internet looking for info cuz that will make her crazy. WE talked about how anxiety provoking tests can be. She has to go for the results of her Physical Sunday between 3:00pm and 5:00pm. So first we'll go to the museum and then I'll take her to her doctor's afterwards. I talked to my shrink this afternoon and told her all about SDA Lady and she says "she sounds like a lovely lady". She told me no red flags jumped out at her. She said that SDA Lady and I seemed to be on the same page as far as intensity. She sees a lady who is willing to give as well as receive. She said that everybody gets into R's differently, some go full throttle and others hang back and there's no right or wrong. She told me just to enjoy what I'm doing. She said she would be worried if my intensity was far greater than SDA Lady but she sees two people who are both interested in seeing where this leads. So, I felt a re-assured. She said she was much more relaxed about this lady than she was about MM. She said MM was a very confused lady and her stories did not ring true. She said that when SDA Lady told me about the end of her marriage she had tears in her eyes, showed real emotion but MM never showed any emotion when she told me her story. Shrink said she found that very odd at the time. Anyway, thats my day.
