Thanks for taking time to reply. I have read that these affairs are like cocaine and somehow make the WAS oblivious to the pain and damage they cause. I am not sure how long this ride is going to be or how bumpy. Working on myself and trying to be the best I can be for my kids. For months she had been saying that she does not want to see this guy and we are just friends - but I was never convinced. Yesterday she said that she might want to see him but would not tell me. I shrugged my shoulders and told her that I will do what I have to do secretly hoping that she would grow the hell up. Her behaviour and chat messages to this gym instructor are so juvenile.
