25MLC, I'm working on every imperfection you've identified except the sexual one. I lack courage and faith with that one. I've made progress with every imperfection you've identified over the years, so I think your impression of me is appoximate but not complete.
I am working on the ideal of unconditional love, but obviously fail daily. I'm hoping going to church will help me with this. I think I used to be the other spouses you described, which contributed to my marital problems.
CL
Wow CL, you are still really truly vague...
so let me guess. Performance anxiety, & "sex issues", mixed in with not wanting to hurt her feelings or feel inadequate?
There are treatments available for this. Talk to your doctor, and get it done.
It's an essential element of marriage that only the marriage partner can fulfill (as opposed to social or intellectual needs)
and denying it to her is just NOT okay...
it's huge. Why or how church would help you with this issue, escapes me.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
