or make sure you send HER copies of the good news from the school AND the bad news...
seek her input and assume the best of her motives...that would be a real 180 for you.
You honestly seem to think she's solely motivated by a desire to hurt you. I don't buy that. And It sure fuels your negative views of things and helps no one...especially you. Finally, almost all of this is beyond your control. Remember to let that go.
Remember how you said you were letting go?
so don't get sucked into the parent contest anymore, and don't make this all about YOU and how you will be hurt by it financially or otherwise.
You both love the kids and want what's best for them. Stop assuming, out loud, that she does not.
That's competitive of you, not her. Or it's mutual. LET IT GO...
Back off and focus on the school issues, involving her with them as well.
Give her something to live UP TO, rather than assuming the worst of her, which just fuels more negativity on both sides.
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