Last night SDA Lady and I spent time talking and exchanging our favourite Bible verses. We also talked about divorce and how it feels to be so, she knows my divorce is in process. She said "everybody seems to think that just because you have that piece of paper you shouldn't have any feelings about it. You're just supposed to go out and find somebody else right away! It doesn't work that way. You don't just forget 20 years of your life just because a piece of paper says it's over. It takes time. It's taken me two years to feel comfortable to go out again" Yeah, I think we're in sinc there. We talked about what we missed about having someone in our lives, she said she missed having someone to talk to about your day. I said I missed that too, and holding someone's hand...it's just the little things that are so important. I said "you know what, when you texted me asking me to drive carefully on Tuesday that felt so good. You thought of me, I liked that" she said "I looked out the window and I saw the snow and remembered that you were driving your brother that morning" I said "that's why it was so nice" She said "I was smiling a lot that afternoon too just thinking about the funny things we texted to each other." she also said that she was afraid that I'd be mad when she teased me by calling me "big brother" but she said that my response told her I wasn't mad "I like that I can be silly with you sometimes!" I told her I have a political party meeting for tonight, she laughed and said "are you going to be a Congressman?"


Divorced February 27, 2012.

"Only by love is love awakened".~ Ellen G White