I would specifically like to reach out to 25, grace, and anyodne who has had long separations but no divorce...
I know my separation isnt long, it has only been 5 months or so.. but I am begining to see that this is comfortable for my H, the door is not closed.. he is just gone...I am trying to understand boundaries..
I know my h will keep this going until he either wants to start a new relationship with someone who pushes him to divorce or if he sees a financial gain from d, both are pretty stupid reasons to me, but I am not him and cant guess where is mind is..
my main question is what is your advice on dating during this period.. not that i want to, but if it where to happen, what do you do? does that make sense? I know he is not dating, because he has told me that is not what this is about for him. but in time i believe that will change.i on the other hand feel as though maybe it would be good to get out. any and all advice or experience on this would be greatly appreciated
m 41 h 44 d 17 (prev marriage) d 9 Never give up!!!!!
