WAW told me she doesn't want to be married pt3

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I concur with Mr. Bond. A professional psychologist chose to say at announce to your brother at a family dinner he is depressed and should go on meds and suck it up and make it work???? My reaction probably would have been a lot worse than his. He even apologized. Wow.

Maybe I worded this wrong. The argument was about my brother in law. It was between my brother and my wife. My brother in law, sister and their kids were not there. It was a concern brought up by my brother to my mother. So it was the 4 of us talking which then my brother started with my W regarding my brother in law. She was recommending what my brother in law needed to do go speak to someone and go on medications. Now my brother in law at the time was also not sleeping and having panic attacks. (which I just rememebered) So in defense she was offering her best recommendations.

Do what makes you happy in your career. You obviously cannot work with your family anymore. So, do what you need to do for you. Go for that Aetna job! I just had my final interview with Traveller's insurance. Those large insurance companies provide a beautiful benefits package. Are you getting that now at your parents? You need to think of your future now.
No I am not receiving any benefits from being with my family except making more then I would at Aetna. But for my self esteem and mental health it would be more beneficial for me to leave.

These are your choices now, make your self accountable for you happiness and decisions.

I saw my therapist last night and told him what is going on. Just the updates and he even said I need to think what is more beneficial to me right now. Stay and be able to pay down debt by making more money, or go to a new job meet new people, challenges and better myself.