Had a talk with the WAW at work. She found out that her H got a ticket while he was driving her car. So she was really pissed.They 1st separated in April for 4 months and they have been separated now since October. During this last S she told me she was done with him, couldn't wait to start dating and was seen with a male on her birthday just 2 weeks ago. Today she tells me "if he showed me some thing, just a change that he will be mature, I would think about it. Yeah I also read a couple of pages online of that book (DR). I would reconsider I do miss him. But I can not go back to the old ways. It would take months of MC".
Guess people due change? When this started she was dead set on a D.
Yeah Rick, I do think it is hard to erase years of shared history. Unless there were years of abuse as opposed to the marriage simply having gone stale, it would seem that there would be an opportunity to restore the M as long as both parties were willing to correct the behaviors that led them to where they are now.
BTW - I meant to comment about something you wrote in one of your pasts a few days ago about the church service you attended last Sunday. The topic at my church was exactly the same as yours, temptation.
I wonder if as a new year starts and people commit to making changes in their lives, if the church recognizes this as ripe terrain for satan to tempt us into changes that could lead to poor decisions, (i.e. infidelity, divorce, etc.).
Anyway, it was a good sermon and a good reminder that satan is always trying to get a hook into our souls.
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It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife
