Your W might even tell you that you are in denial, if you don't agree the M is over. And some here would even say, the old M should be over, to make room for any possible new M...
It is just as important to understand that your W is also in denial... she denies that there is any possibility that the two of you could work things out and rebuild the M. It is also possible that she denies any responsibility in the break down of your M. She might outwardly say she does, but if she did, she'd be working on the parts that were her responsibility... and YOU WOULD NOTICE...
Do you feel progress in detaching? Do you feel you could have an unemotional conversation with your W in regards to D proceedings? Could you "hang" with your W in a social setting, without feeling anxious and unable to remove your focus off her?
Keep up the LRT and keep working on yourself. Your W is suggesting that she is noticing your changes. This is positive! It will more than likely take more time than you'd hoped, for her to begin to change her mind and start seriously examining her choice...
