do you really want this man as your mate for life, or do you just not want to "lose"?
that's not meant to be offensive; it's a question we ALL have to ask ourselves when another party (OW) is involved...
there's an inherent competitiveness in us that makes us cling to something --that we don't really want IF someone else wants it--happens in stores all the time. You put the blouse back b/c you don't think it'll flatter you, but when another woman goes to get it, suddenly you DO want it, now that you reconsidered...
so you will have to dig deep on this question...
B/C i have to wonder what kind of life you are going to have with him...ever...
if this does not change very soon. And even then, what?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
