so get a campaign plan going. Start going out at night a little at least. Be vague about where or with whom. HAVE SOME FUN with some friends or if you must, go alone to a funny movie or an uplifting one or an action packed one...no romances right now. NO tragedies...
Dress up, look good, be warm but not fakey...just receptive like a concerned friend and LISTEN to him when he talks, Make eye contact. Don't "lose it" b/c you get upset. If you need to stop a conversation b/c you are losing it, ask to revisit the issue later when you are not as upset...say you need time to process this b/c you have not thought about it or known about this as long as he has, so you need time to adjust to this...do NOT engage in a debate or argument about the divorce...postpone...AND Join something...a club, a group, a church, OR ALL 3...this week!
GAL--it really makes all the rest of this "self esteem" and the changes in you that you are working on
much more likely. That's why we hammer it so much here.
((( )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
