Aren't you leaving tomorrow!?! If so, the very best of luck, and personal growth.
Just another nugget of advice/wisdom, etc... You KNOW just because you have a H that has had an affair in the past, and/or acts suspect, is unhappy now, or sporadically... It doesn't mean there's something wrong with you, or that you NEED to do work. Sometimes, it is truly just them.
With that said... Don't go looking for issues/traits to fix. But, be open to improving what YOU want to...
I see that come up on here a lot. It bothers me. None of us are perfect, but good, good spouses get dumped on for no reason sometimes. It can just be a selfish WAS projecting, too.
Just don't lose yourself.
You know where to find me!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
