Maybe it is different in RL but it sounds pouty to me.

Your H was direct, and you were wishy washy.

Do you really NOT want him to come? or do you not want him to come home because based on history you won't have a good time with him while he is home.

I guess I'm just saying - be careful what you wish for.

Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.