I'll tell you this though, Mnky - check my older threads. She started the exact same way - "It's over! I'm done! I have no feelings towards you or this marriage and there is nothing you can do to change my mind!". Granted, I am by NO MEANS out of the woods yet....long way from it, and the ball could still bounce either way for me. It is plainly clear that my W is working through some confusion and a healthy dose of anger, and there is little that I can do right now other that let her process it while I try to stay on course and not backslide.
The best thing you can do for yourself is to stay busy. Do yourself a favor and say "yes" to everything that is offered to you by anyone - even if you don't think you have any interest in it.I still miss my W, but being around other people, new people and old friends helped me feel "normal" again....well, that and a tasty combo-platter of Prozac and Klonopin - but that is another story.
Funny, but my W said in MC last night that after she moved out it was as if I stopped caring and that it only validated her decision to leave. All along I was doing LRT - I cared A LOT but was trying to give her enough space to live her life and assert her independence. NEVER would have guess she read it as me not giving a sh*t about her.
But seriously, listen to KD an others - go work on GAL. It sounds like BS, but you really WILL feel better.
