Building a more solid personal Foundation

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I don't know about you, but I have a much clearer picture of what I want in a relationship now as opposed to when my W and I got M'd.

I absolutely agree with this.

I have a really good friend going thru the same mess. This morning he asked me what I thought about him getting involved with a woman that has been divorced twice.

I gave him some reasons why it wasn't a good idea and then said, "DING, DING, DING......big RED FLAG". She has been divorced twice. Then I realized this is his second divorce. I continued, "Wait, that puts you two in the same category. Hmm...I wonder why?" He laughed, but saw the point.

I guess I am sharing this because either we use this opportunity to learn and grow or we don't.

I'll be praying about your jobs. Like I've said before, it will be interesting to see if/how the dynamics of your sitch shift when you move to NM.

Thanks JB. It will be interesting, however I am not sure I'd be up to waiting for her to put in the work.

Therefore, I will make the best of being a single father.

Yes, it sux. But it does help with the ambivalence, doesn't it?

Yes it does. I feel like I am in a really good place in my life right now.