This made me laugh JB. Of course we should be better equipped to not find ourselves in this sitch again. Doesn't mean it can't happen. It just means that we have no excuses to be a part of the problem.
It's the truth, but it was intended to make you laugh. You're exactly right, we will be MUCH better equipped to not find ourselves in this situation again. I don't know about you, but I have a much clearer picture of what I want in a relationship now as opposed to when my W and I got M'd. Like both you and KD, if I find what I think is that relationship, I am willing to put it on the line again.
Originally Posted By: LITB
On a personal note, things are beginning to heat up on the job front in NM. I have 2 interviews on Monday and trying to coordinate another for Friday with 2 more possibilities in the oven.
I'll be praying about your jobs. Like I've said before, it will be interesting to see if/how the dynamics of your sitch shift when you move to NM.
Originally Posted By: LITB
This whole thing about finding out about OM sukks, but I'm glad that I don't have to wonder anymore. I feel as though that I can finally let go completely and move on. I'm looking forward to the future and I am going to embrace the opportunities that lie ahead.
Yes, it sux. But it does help with the ambivalence, doesn't it?
You're exactly right, we will be MUCH better equipped to not find ourselves in this situation again. I don't know about you, but I have a much clearer picture of what I want in a relationship now as opposed to when my W and I got M'd. Like both you and KD, if I find what I think is that relationship, I am willing to put it on the line again.
But it does help with the ambivalence, doesn't it?