Why am I struggling with those above things when I KNOW it's out of my control. It is driving me crazy.
Hey NM, IMO, the reason we LBS struggle is because there is a big difference between intellecutally KNOWING that you cannot prevent your WAS from doing anything or get your WAS to do anything and ACCEPTING that information as a fact and then living the life of acceptance. FWIW, I KNEW my WAS was largely out the door after we S but it still took me a good month of pleading, begging, etc., before I truly ACCEPTED that my WAS had walked away. Acceptance is, IMO, an on going process that we LBS have to wrestle with every day. Keep working, my friend.
