What Do I Do? Help!

[leopoldstotch]

I've also come to see that perhaps for someone who was a neglecting H and didn't meet her needs that going dark may not be the best thing to do but pursuing isn't going to work either it's a fine line that must be walked and it isn't easy.

I feel the same way about my H. It's a fine line that I haven't been navigating very well. So I look forward to hearing from the veterans on this.

Hopefully they can chime in here with their words of wisdom.