How Do You Stop Driving Yourself Crazy

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It's really a hard thing. What helped me while W was gone was trying to have faith in her as the person I fell in love with, not the person I currently perceive her to be. She may very well have changed since we were married, but she's still the same person, deep down. Time and broken marital bliss changed what shines through.

One of the worst things you can do right now is trust your feelings. If you have no proof something is going on, it's best to do whatever is necessary to get it out of your mind. And even if you DID have proof, what would that change? It would only heighten your (already great) misery. What are you doing to GAL? If it's not taking up enough clock time, find something else to fill the void.

I didn't do recreational reading for years, and recently rediscovered how cathartic it can be. I've read several Tom Clancy novels in the last month, the Steve Jobs Biography, in addition to self-help stuff and DR. FILL THAT DOWN TIME!