Jenna- Thanks so much! I didn't see your post before I started writing that^^^^^^one.
I just read yours, and I really needed that kick in the butt! We've got a strange dynamic right now and it's hard to completely separate houses/lives.... but I'm becoming more uncomfortable with our current arrangements. I guess I thought that when he 'moved out'- he would be out of my life a little more- which was going to hurt, but at least I could learn to accept his absence. The way things are now- I can't get over him, because he's always here! Even on his 'weekend off' he came by a few times to get things or see the boys. I never considered him a cake eater when he was living in the guest room because he contributed to the house.... but now, he's acting like nothing has to change since he's not living here. This is REALLY complicated and I'm nervous (not sure why) about putting my foot down and setting a clear boundary.
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12